We’re only ever destined to become the woman we decide to be…

Walking away from my engagement to a man I loved because I knew in my heart I wanted to be with a woman, followed by the sudden death of my best friend Rita, and a serious accident in which I almost lost my own life just one year later, placed me on a steep trajectory of self-evolution.

In short, I woke up: quite literally in an ambulance.

Acutely aware of the fleeting fragility of life, I vowed to make the most of mine. I switched off autopilot and took the reins of my world. I began gently excavating all the ways I’d been taught I should think, speak, do, and be; and rewiring my neural pathways so I could free myself from this and evolve into who I’m actually here to be.

As I began consciously and courageously creating my world from the inside out, I learned about the power we ALL have to do this, and I knew it was my purpose to facilitate this in others too. I kept asking: Why do we wait for our world to fall apart before creating the lives we really want, when we can do it right now? 

By working through my internal blocks and taking aligned action, I manifested a secure, loving relationship with a woman, bought a home in London (something just a few years previously I'd believed I'd never be able to do), and built my coaching business; allowing me the freedom of a laptop lifestyle and the joy and purpose of contributing beyond my own existence through my soul work.

But despite appearing to “have it all” I was still playing small. I was living in an ‘either or paradigm’, believing I could either have safety, or passion in my relationship. Believing I could either be a business coach or a wildly sensual, embodied medicine woman. Believing I could either create 6 figures as a digital nomad or create a home as a wife & mother. Roots or wings.

Before long the suppression of my multi-dimensional desires began showing up in my womb and I was diagnosed with endometriosis. As I faced my reflection in the hospital bathroom mirror, I promised myself I would have both roots and wings. And I would do it in a way that honoured my body.

What followed was a burning to the ground of all that I knew. I walked away from my 8 year relationship, my home and through the darkest of nights. I held myself through heartbreak, sickness and loss. I contracted sepsis during IVF treatment and journeyed through my second near death experience, only to be reborn as an unfuckable with evolution of myself.

I went deeper than I’d ever been before, studying and integrating nervous system work, emotional & energetic release, inner child work, plant medicine & sensual embodiment. I opened myself as a channel for divine life force energy to live through me. I transformed my relationship with my body and my business, and created limitless freedom in all of the ways.

Right now this looks like rooting down in my home ‘The Pleasure Palace’ when I‘m in the UK, and flying away to the tropics when my heart and body call for it.

I'm in a safe and passionate relationship with a woman I love and am in love with; where all of me is seen and celebrated.

My work is intuitively channeled through me like orgasms of divine self-expression.

I’m wildly abundant in money, energy and time.

I live & work in sync with my natural rhythms, prioritising my health, joy and pleasure.

I’m surrounded by a community of soul led leaders evolving into the new paradigm together.

And I know that whatever happens next in my story I don’t have to control it. I can trust myself & the great unfolding.

I’m freedom embodied.

Why do I coach women on a mission?

The short answer is I am one, and I know that wise, brave, women deserve to receive the support and holding we give to others.

The longer answer... I was raised by my single mother, who showed me what it is to be a woman who stands in her power, who loves fiercely and who never gives up. I have surrounded myself with women like this in my personal and professional life - women who are the living, breathing, embodiment of the more beautiful world our hearts know is possible.

I believe every woman has the power to bring forth the vision within her, but only when she is ready to meet herself fully and do the work of inner and outer alignment. 

Women on a mission are leaders, entrepreneurs and change makers, determined to make an impact in our world. We are taking our power back and carving our own path. No longer waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel, but lighting it up ourselves! 

I know how hard it can be, especially as a leader, to feel safe enough to be vulnerable. I also know that our vulnerability is precisely where our self-evolution lies. My purpose is to support you in this journey, when you are ready.  Not ready yet? That's ok, I'll be here for you when you are. Never been readier? I look forward to meeting you.